How Can One Person Be So Tired?

For those who know me pre-cancer treatments, I am usually a bundle of energy, able to multitask and juggle multiple projects. I rarely nap. I wake up early and go to bed relatively early. Even when I WANT to nap, I can't.

These days, I am a tired puddle.  For the first time ever, I slept through beach bootcamp today.  Turned off my alarm without even waking and rolled over.  I know I set my alarm because the location of bootcamp was slightly farther away, and I debated, 5:15am or 5:30am?, before I settled on 5:30am.  My husband woke me at 6:30am.  I was 50% devastated (the best part of the day wasn't going to happen!) and 50% shocked.  And even after that sleep, I was tired.  I got a workout in later in the morning as I tagged along with my husband to his trainer.  And I ran some errands, had a meeting, and then desperately needed a nap, sleeping for another hour plus.  Went to a 5:00pm dinner, ate, and am now, at 6:23pm, wondering when it would be reasonable to go back to bed for the night. 7:00pm?

What is wrong with me?  I know fatigue is a side effect, but I'm feeling like it's the main effect.  I look at my calendar now and wonder what things I will have to cancel rather than wondering what else I can squeeze in.  So if I have to cancel a dinner or change a plan, it's not you; it's me.  Apologies. Hopefully this exhaustion is temporary. xo, J

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